CRAVINGS
Recipes: Maple Lemonade/ Chipotle Bean Toastada
Sesame Garlic Stir Fried Noodles/ Arugula Pesto Chickpea Spread Sandwich
Maxi Dress: Banana Republic Outlet
Denim Jacket: LOFT (pre-pregnancy)
Shoes: (hidden) TOMS- Earthwise Slate Classic
Hat: Yankees
Sunglasses: $2 deal at Renys
Jacket: MPG Sport
Shorts: JCrew Outlet
Tee: Banana Republic Outlet
Shoes: Onitsuka Tiger (by Asics)
Disclaimer: This is NOT a sponsored post all thoughts and opinions are my own.
As we’ve been preparing for our baby, I’ve come to realize that there are a lot more “want” items than NEED items. Babies do not need much, as one of Neil’s co-workers put it they need a place to sleep, clothes, diapers and a boob. Everything else is really just extra, but of course many things are nice to have.
My biggest struggle with a registry is waiting so long to find out if anyone would give us items off our registry for our shower which wasn’t until early June. I am such a planner and it was been torture waiting so long to see if any of our top priority items were gifted to us. Since I am a planner and don’t want to rely on chance that someone will gift us the items we need we decided to buy certain things if we saw them for a good deal.
Tips:
Nursery:
In the nursery we kept our eyes peeled for a dresser on Craigslist and finally spotted one that we wanted and for only $50!
We re-purposed our small white shelving unit that was already in the nursery which used to be my office- costing us nothing.
Rather than buying art work to fill the nursery walls we made our own art work totaling around $60 for supplies. It also made for a great arts and crafts night with the Hubz and our friend Laura.
Baby Gear:
We found our Moby wrap on Craigslist and although it wasn’t the color that I wanted it was in good shape, practically brand new (the couple who we bought it from only used it a few times) and it was only $20.
Also purchased from Craigslist was our baby swing ($60), bouncy chair ($20), bumbo ($10), boppy ($10), and brestfriend ($10); all gently used and at good prices. We don’t love the cover of our boppy and we will be replacing that but otherwise everything just needs a wash and is in good condition. The total retail cost of everything would have been around $300 versus the $110 we spent on everything! Additionally these are all items that will be used only for 3-6 months before they will be retired so no need investing big bucks in items with such a short life.
We bought our Ergo on BabySteals for $80 which was 47% off the retail price.
Clothes:
Take advantage of sale racks and outlets. We have been able to find a number of items from Baby Gap both regular store and the outlet, see that Santa onesie? It was only 59 cents! Also if it’s on sale and you really like it buy it in bigger sizes as well.
Buy gentle used clothes and take advantage of hand-me-downs. We have taken advantage of gentle used clothing deals such as $10 for 10 onesies.
Diapering:
Cloth diapering. Cloth diapering is an investment at first however in the long term you will have a huge savings. A great resource for comparing prices of different types of cloth diapers and that of disposable is this site. If you really want to save money go the prefolds route.
Feeding:
Breastfeeding. Basically free. All you need may need to purchase are a breast pump, milk storage bags and a few bottles.
Make your own. When it comes time to start feeding solids make your own baby food!
Other Resources:
At our 31 week appointment it was confirmed that our baby was breech, we were told not to worry that there was still plenty of time for them to turn and given a sheet of different positions that I could try at home to encourage them to turn. Even though I was reassured that it was nothing to really worry about until I was closer to 35 weeks I still couldn’t help but wonder- what if this baby doesn’t turn? Our midwife sent us home with the handout below and suggested that we try The Breech Tilt (pillow version), as well as, to focus on sitting forward and not crossing my legs.
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For the next two weeks I did The Breech Tilt, I tried talking to the baby and massaging my belly in a downward motion and Neil’s favorite we tired the flashlight trick. At our 33 week appointment we were told the baby was head down and that it was 98% chance that they would stay that way- WIN! Update: Almost 38 weeks now and the baby is still head down!
We lucked out but for those of you who are trying to flip a breech baby here are the suggestions that I received from my yoga teacher who is also a doula, from our midwife and via spinningbabies.com:
Was/Is your baby breech? What techniques have you tried? Did any of them seem to work?
During our Natural Baby Care Class one of the big topics that came up was Attachment Parenting. Attachment Parenting is based on forming and nurturing strong connections between parents and their children. We discussed Attachment Parenting International‘s (API) Eight Principles of Parenting*:
*Information provided from Mother Rising Childbirth Services
The most important thing to remember about attachment parenting is that you don’t have to do it all or go to the extreme. Finding what works best for you is most important. We have done our best to prepare for pregnancy, I am planning to breastfeed, we will be co-sleeping for the first few months (not bed-sharing but rather sleeping in the same room) and are planning to keep all of these principles in mind as we begin our lives as a family of three.
Do you practice attachment parenting?
Pregnancy Ups
Pregnancy Downs


1. Cropped Denim Jacket |2. Jeggings | 3. Faux Wrap Dress | 4. Toms | 5. Scarf | 6. Wrap Jacket
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Neil and I started considering baby names around week 17 of our pregnancy. We sat down and both made our own list of about 10 boy names and 10 girl names (although I am pretty sure that my boy name list was like 15 and girl was around 6). Once we finished our individual lists we exchanged them and crossed off any that we didn’t like from each others lists and then from our two lists we then created one master list.
We then considered the following things:
The things we didn’t take into consideration:
Girls Names: Here are a few of the girls names that made our lists (either his, hers or ours) at some point in our naming process [note this list may or may not include the final name choice - you'll just have to wait to find out!]
Boys Names: Here are a few of the boys names that made our lists (either his, hers or ours) at some point in our naming process [note like above this list may or may not include the final name choice - you'll just have to wait to find out!]
Eventually we whittled our lists down and came up with five boy and five girl names that we really liked. Then we let things marinate for a while and took a few weeks off from really discussing names.
Around Week 23, we started to really talk about names again and slowly started to reduce our list. By Week 24 we had decided on our boys first name and middle name but we were still debating over our girl’s name.
By Week 26, we had narrowed our girls name down to two options although we were leaning more towards one and eventually settled on it(or so we thought). Then, around week 33 I came across another girls name that I really have been drawn to and we debated over it for a few weeks but ultimately decided that the name we were leaning towards originally was the girls name wanted to go with.
Now here we are Week 37 and we are ready and waiting the arrival of our little boy or girl. Part of me wonders if we will have a change of heart about the name when we meet them? Will we need to go back to the drawing board? Or will the name that we decided on be just right?
How did you go about choosing your baby name(s)?
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